Women in China facing domestic violence no one is talking about

Washington, US:

Xueli Wang, an independent scholar and Jianli Yang, a former political prisoner of China and a Tiananmen Massacre survivor, is the founder and president of Citizen Power Initiatives for China, writing in The Washington Times highlighted China’s hidden epidemic in an opinion piece.

China is coming to grips with domestic violence, and the judiciary is taking up measures to combat the menace after a series of high-profile cases recently highlighted the plight of domestic violence victims, sparking nationwide outrage.

Way back in 2010, the National Bureau of Statistics of China and the Third Survey of Social Status of Women said 24.7 per cent of women in the 20-64 age group experienced domestic violence in various forms. Women’s support groups on average received between 40,000 and 50,000 complaints of domestic violence annually.

The first law targeting the problem was passed only in 2015. The main principles of the Anti-Domestic Violence Law are “to prevent and stop domestic violence; protect the equal rights of family members; preserve equal, harmonious, civilized familial relationships; promote family harmony and social stability.”

One media outlet asserted, “unfortunately, the last objective (preserving and protecting family harmony) directly contradicts the first (preventing domestic violence), which is the main issue leading to the law’s overall ineffectiveness,” reported Xueli and Jianli.

The problem lies in the Chinese family values that stem from Confucianism, which promotes female submission. Violence against female family members is normalized and even encouraged, as shown in sayings like ‘a beating shows intimacy and a scolding shows love.’

Indoctrinated with ideas of female subordination and that being beaten by their significant others is normal, women rarely stand up against their partners even if they are abused. It is a common belief that protesting against their husbands is a demonstration of lack of obedience and modesty — if a wife were to leave her husband, she would disrupt the social harmony of the family and provoke the disdain of the community.

Even today, violence against a woman by her husband is still “concealed within the sphere of private life and, as such, is largely overlooked.” Violence committed by husbands is seen as “his family’s private matter instead of a larger social concern,” said Xueli and Jianli.

Before legislation came to rescue the victims, Chinese society believed mediation was enough to endorse “family harmony” and “fulfilling familial duties.”

According to The Diplomat, studies have shown mediation is ineffective since victims gloss over the extent of the violence they endured out of fear and intimidation, resulting in thousands of cases being dismissed.

Since the anti-domestic violence legislation came in, “mediation” has taken on a different meaning. The report explains: “Mediation allows the convergence of the state’s interest in stability and society’s belief in family harmony. This also raises serious safety concerns for victims.

First, the Anti-Domestic Violence Law calls for informal mediation by “people’s mediation organizations” and “employers” to “prevent and reduce incidents of domestic violence.”

But such mediations are typically conducted by inexperienced people. Second, police response to domestic violence favors conflict resolution through “criticism and education” instead of taking coercive action against abusers, reported The Washington Times.

The critics say the law “fails to acknowledge the potential negative impacts of mediation on victim safety.” Pro-women groups say that the mediation does not punish the abusers and only encourages them.

Moreover, for China’s ruling Chinese Communist Party, women have long been little more than a welfare benefit that can be distributed to men and employed as a tool for the regime to maintain “familial harmony, social (and thereby political) stability.”

Women are certainly not encouraged to awaken — purportedly the result of “infiltration by foreign forces” — to engage in rebellious agitation and destabilize long-standing male dominance, let alone do or say anything that the CCP perceives as a threat to its continued existence.

However, as education, awareness and employment make their way across the country, more and more women are speaking up about domestic violence. It has elevated to a national concern in recent years.